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When I first became a pastor, my mom made me promise that I would always celebrate Mother’s Day in worship. It wasn’t up for debate—she made it clear it was something I had to do!  And I’ve honored that promise every single year. Partly because I know how much it means to her and how wonderful she was as a mom, but also because I truly believe in celebrating the spirit of mothering in all its many forms.

In the United Methodist Church, Mother’s Day is known as the Festival of the Christian Home. It’s a day to honor not just biological mothers, but the many ways people nurture, guide, and love like mothers. We recognize that while everyone is born to a mother, not everyone had a mother actively in their life, and not every woman has the experience of becoming a mother. Some have longed for that opportunity, and others have found themselves mothering in unexpected ways. It’s a day to celebrate all who have poured out love and care in motherly ways—whether to children, neighbors, friends, or even their four-legged companions.

I’ve never had children of my own, but I’ve been incredibly blessed to be part of the lives of so many children through my ministry. I get to watch them grow, hear their laughter fill the church, and witness their faith blossom in the most beautiful ways. I often joke that I’d probably be an anxious parent—I’m already a bit overprotective with my two pups, Lily and Lucy! If breakfast is even five minutes late, Lucy is barking at me with full determination. They are my little companions, and I often find myself worrying about them more than I probably should. If I’m that worked up over two dogs, I can only imagine what it’s like to be a parent!

But here’s what I’ve come to realize: mothering isn’t limited to those who have children. It’s a spirit, a calling even, to nurture, to guide, to comfort, and to love. And that spirit shows up in so many ways. When I look at the stories in the Bible, I’m amazed by the variety of mothering roles I see:

• Hannah, who prayed desperately for a child and, when God answered her prayer, dedicated Samuel to a life of service. Her faith and trust in God’s plan were remarkable.

• Naomi, who became a mother figure to Ruth during one of the hardest seasons of their lives. Naomi’s wisdom and guidance helped Ruth find a new path forward.

• Deborah, who served as both a judge and a prophet for Israel. She mothered an entire nation with her wisdom and strength, leading them through times of trouble with faith and courage.

• Mary, the mother of Jesus, who showed incredible faith as she raised the Son of God. Her journey was filled with uncertainty, yet she held fast to God’s promise.

• And there are so many unnamed women in the Bible who nurtured the early church, offering hospitality, prayer, and unwavering support.

This Sunday, we want to honor all women who carry that spirit of mothering—whether they’ve raised children, mentored someone in the faith, or simply poured love into those around them. We’ve prepared a special gift for every woman who attends worship as a small way to say thank you for all the ways you love and lead.

I know Mother’s Day brings a mix of emotions for many of us. For some, it’s a day of great joy and celebration; for others, it may bring feelings of loss, longing, or bittersweet memories. My prayer is that this Sunday, we can all come together in worship, honoring the spirit of mothering that reflects the heart of God—a love that nurtures, guides, and holds us close.

I’m looking forward to celebrating with you!  See you Sunday!

Peace, Pastor Tracy